When we were confronted by so many question eg " when married? ", we scared, pressure, sad and worry! why is it so? it is because we fail to plan it, we plan to fail?
In the conclusion, we are not living in the shadow of others. We are what we are, we should not bother other's perception on us. We should think why we need marry? What is the life after marry? We do not simply follow others? Why should we when we can plan for our own destiny ? Have we planned? Why must we follow the complicated traditional kind of wedding celebration? It is truly time wasted and meaningless.
For sure, we shall not follow it. We make everything simple. Just a piece of paper will say it out that we are married! That is all. Nothing more than that! If they were sincere, they will send the best wishes to us. Why must we receive others ang pao to held the party/buffet? It is truly ridiculous, yet we still follow it just for the sake of follow. Totally meaningless. It could not happen to a A star student like us. We follow only stuff that is meaningful to us. Do we make ourselve clear, dear ?
In the conclusion, we are not living in the shadow of others. We are what we are, we should not bother other's perception on us. We should think why we need marry? What is the life after marry? We do not simply follow others? Why should we when we can plan for our own destiny ? Have we planned? Why must we follow the complicated traditional kind of wedding celebration? It is truly time wasted and meaningless.
For sure, we shall not follow it. We make everything simple. Just a piece of paper will say it out that we are married! That is all. Nothing more than that! If they were sincere, they will send the best wishes to us. Why must we receive others ang pao to held the party/buffet? It is truly ridiculous, yet we still follow it just for the sake of follow. Totally meaningless. It could not happen to a A star student like us. We follow only stuff that is meaningful to us. Do we make ourselve clear, dear ?
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